Fighting Fair

Right Now

  • Consider marriage and family a life-long commitment, no matter what, just as Christ is eternally committed to His bride, the church, no matter what.

  • Agree to listen to each other’s feelings, always, even if you disagree.

  • Commit yourself to honesty.

  • Attempt and be determined to love each other unconditionally.

Before a “fair fight”

  • Consider all factors in a conflict before bringing it up with your family member.

  • Confess any personal sin on your part.

  • Aim for conflict resolution, not for a win. Remember you both win if the conflict is resolved.

  • Pray about each conflict before discussing it.

During a “fair fight”

  • Limit the conflict to the here and now. Never bring up past failures.

  • Limit the discussion to the issue at hand.

  • No name calling or blaming or sneering.

  • Your goal is not to get even.

  • No excuses, take responsibility for your part.

  • Treat a person’s feelings with respect.

  • Identify the problem and focus on the problem not the person.

  • Attack the problem not the person.

  • Listen with an open mind.

When to stop and call Foul

If there are any of the following you need to stop:

  • Threats

  • Pushing

  • Hitting

  • Put downs

  • Bossing

  • Not taking responsibility

At Christian Counseling of Arkansas we are here to help. If you need support or help please call as at 870 935 4102

About us

Laura Hodges, LPC, NCC

Laura Hodges is a Licensed Professional Counselor and the founder of Christian Counseling of Arkansas. She received her Master’s Degree as well as her Advanced Counseling Degree from Regent University in Virginia. Laura has vast experience in counseling individuals and couples. Previously a lead therapist for the Meier Clinic Day Program in Virginia, Laura designed and was responsible for many of its group therapy programs.

Laura is passionate about the integrity of the marital relationship and is committed to helping couples build a solid foundation for a strong and loving marriage. She helps couples manage conflict, strengthen their emotional connection and build a solid friendship.

Many issues in life are related to masked feelings that need to be identified. Laura can help clients get to the root of underlying many negative behaviors. She specializes in counseling individuals with issues of co-dependency, depression, anxiety, sexual issues, obsessive-compulsive disorder, anger issues, eating disorders and women’s issues. One of Laura’s missions is to restore unity to the marriage using Biblical principles and tried counseling tools to bring increased intimacy and happiness to marriage.

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Laura Hodges, Licensed Professional Counselor

Laura Hodges is a Licensed Professional Counselor and has worked for Meier Clinic in Virginia as the lead therapist for their Day Program. She designed and was responsible for many of the group therapy programs at Meier Clinic.

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Fighting Fair

Right Now

  • Consider marriage and family a life-long commitment, no matter what, just as Christ is eternally committed to His bride, the church, no matter what.

  • Agree to listen to each other’s feelings, always, even if you disagree.

  • Commit yourself to honesty.

  • Attempt and be determined to love each other unconditionally.

Before a “fair fight”

  • Limit the conflict to the here and now. Never bring up past failures.

  • Limit the discussion to the issue at hand.

  • No name calling or blaming or sneering.

  • Your goal is not to get even.

  • No excuses, take responsibility for your part.

  • Treat a person’s feelings with respect.

  • Identify the problem and focus on the problem not the person.

  • Attack the problem not the person.

  • Listen with an open mind.

During a “fair fight”

  • Consider all factors in a conflict before bringing it up with your family member.

  • Confess any personal sin on your part.

  • Aim for conflict resolution, not for a win. Remember you both win if the conflict is resolved.

  • Pray about each conflict before discussing it.

When to stop and call Foul

If there are any of the following you need to stop:

  • Consider all factors in a conflict before bringing it up with your family member.

  • Confess any personal sin on your part.

  • Aim for conflict resolution, not for a win. Remember you both win if the conflict is resolved.

  • Pray about each conflict before discussing it.

At Christian Counseling of Sarasota we are here to help. If you need support or help please call as at 870 935 4102

A LITTLE SOMETHING ABOUT US

We offer counseling services for all age groups and many areas of difficulties. Our Christian Counselors work from a solid understanding of God's word and a personal walk with Christ.

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Copyright © 2024 | Christian Counseling of Sarasota | All Rights

A LITTLE SOMETHING ABOUT US

We offer counseling services for all age groups and many areas of difficulties. Our Christian Counselors work from a solid understanding of God's word and a personal walk with Christ.

RECENT POSTS

  • Teen Depression

  • Counseling for New Moms

  • Tips for Successful New Year’s Resolutions

  • Tips on Communicating with Your Spouse

  • Expectations

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